Today we took Milan and Sofia to the DSANV Christmas party in Falls Church. It was nice to meet lots of people who have children with down syndrome. They had a nice Christmas dinner and Milan loved seeing Santa again. She told him she really wants a camera and a dollhouse.
I wondered how Sofia would react to Santa. She really was fascinated by him. This was a very cute picture of her.
I am glad we had the opportunity to attend. I have to admit it was a bit overwhelming and on the ride home I couldn't help feeling a little sad. I guess I haven't had much of a grief period over all that will come as Sofia grows up. I have tried really hard not to think about what lays ahead. I have tried to stay in the moment and enjoy each moment with my precious baby. It is like I can't catch a breath when I think about everything. I love my Sofia so much and would not ask for anything different.
6 comments:
Hi Amy,
Your girls are beautiful! I'm Jake Earle's wife (Amy). Your blog is great!
I'm so glad you all came to the party yesterday, Amy. Yes, it can be a bit overwhelming. We went for the first time when Samantha was 7 months old, and I remember feeling a little sad, too. It's perfectly natural. I love the photos with Santa! I'm sorry we didn't get to see Sofia awake, though.
Cute pics Amy! You're girls are adorable. I sent you a Christmas card so hopefully you'll get it before Christmas :)!
-Jillynne
Hey there! It was so great to meet you on Sat. I COMPLETELY understand being overwhelmed. Our first DSANV event was when S was 6 weeks. Yikes. I guess I am a head in the sand kinda gal because I, too, don't often think about the future for S. I don't want to limit her based upon what someone else may or may not be able to do. I figure she'll show us, over time, what she's capable of.
Amy it is probably good you don't think of the future, since honestly there is only one person who knows what it is, and getting worked up over what May be or Could be isn't really productive, I think you are dead right to just be Sofia's mommy, Everyday love her and hug her and give her all you can, (Same With Mila) She will have all she needs because she had a FABULOUS family and She is right were she is supposed to be. You are an Awesome Momma, I am so proud of you, and Munich too of course you love your kids, you provide all you can, you really can't do anything more, Kids are loose cannons, with they have DS or not you can't predict their futures, and all you can do is give them the best foundation you possible can... Which You and Munich are doing! So Hang in there! Remember there is a plan, and You have a great family, and a loving Heavenly Father to support you! WE love you tons! And if you need anything all you have to do is ask... If you want to talk you can call me any time of course! I love you Amy, Munich Milan and Sofia!
Amy - it was great meeting you and your family on Saturday! Our first DSANV party was when Matthew was a few months old. Brian and I sat in the parking lot for 30 minutes debating whether we should go in. We decided to stay and I'm glad we did. I was so nervous and anxious looking at all the kids running around. It has gotten easier with time.....although I still let my mind wonder to the future. It's natural.
Hope to see you at the next event (or before). Feel free to contact me if you ever have questions or need anything..... rayfamily02 at yahoo.com
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